LOVE ADVICE PLZ HELP =/?

okay ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months i love this guy! but he has a baby with another girl it upsets me all THE TIME!! but suposively the condum broke and she got preggo when she got preggo they had "problems" and broke up. she moved reaally far and they dont c each other anymore. but a week ago i found some poems saying that in a little while theyll all be a happy family and i also found a cd that she recorded for him of her fav songs but he sayd that it was along time ago im starting to think he still loves her but he just cant c her because she lives to far help please!!