Why do Liberals confuse telling someone you think its wrong?

with telling them they can't do that. i.e. I think abortion is wrong and thats what I believe. I don't recall telling anybody they can't have an abortion. Yet I am told by Liberals I can't think, talk or feel that way and I need to throw my beliefs away and get some reeducation. I have been demanded not to think this way. I have been told I am brainwashed into believing killing unborn babies is wrong and that its a human right. I won't deny every human can make any choice they want. I just have a hard time saying its the right thing to do. How does that make me a bigot and a hater?